If we convert the equations of the circles to standard form, the first equation becomes
$$(x-9)^2-81 + (y-11)^2-121 - 23 = 0$$
$$(x-9)^2 + (y-11)^2 = 15^2,$$
and the second equation reduces to
$$(x+7)^2-49 + (y+1)^2-1 + p = 0$$
$$(x+7)^2 + (y+1)^2= (\sqrt{50-p})^2.$$
The distance between the two centers is $\sqrt{(9-(-7))^2+(11-(-1))^2}=20$. If the two circles are tangent, this means the distance between the centers is equal to the sum of the two radii; in other words, $20=15+\sqrt{50-p}$. Solving for $p$, we get $p=25$.
To find the point of tangency, The key realization is that the point of tangency lies on the line segment connecting the center of the two circles, $(9, 11)$ and $(-7, -1)$. Note this line segment has length $20$. Because the radius of $C_1$ is $15$, the point of tangency must lie $\frac{15}{20}$ of the way from $(9, 11)$ to $(-7, -1)$. Therefore the tangent point is $(-3, 2)$.
Alternatively, the two equations $(x-9)^2 + (y-11)^2 = 15^2$ and $(x+7)^2 + (y+1)^2= 5^2$ could have been solved as a system of simultaneous equations, yielding the same answer.

Credit to Desmos for the graph