One of the clasical method for obtaining the limit of function with two variables in $(0,0)$ is by this fact that you can
assume $x=r \, \cos(\theta)$ and $y=r \, \sin(\theta)$, then calculate the limit with new values for $x$ and $y$ when $r \to 0$, if after calculation limit, the final values of limit depend on to $\theta$, we conclude that, the function dose not have limit in $(0,0)$ but if the final values of limit be independent of $\theta$, we say the function has limit in $(0,0)$ with value that we obtained. so we have
$$\lim_{(x,y) \to (0,0)}\,\dfrac {\left( x^{3}y-xy^{3}\right) } {x^{2}+y^{2} }
=
\lim_{r \to 0}\,\dfrac {\left( {(r \, \cos(\theta))}^{3}\,{r \, \sin(\theta)}-{r \, \cos(\theta)}\,{(r \, \sin(\theta))}^{3}\right) } {{(r \, \cos(\theta))}^{2}+{(r \, \cos(\theta))}^{2} }
$$
$$
=\lim_{r \to 0} \frac{r^4({\cos(\theta)^3\, \sin(\theta)}-{\sin(\theta)^3\, \cos(\theta)})}{r^2}
$$
$$
=\lim_{r \to 0} r^2\,{(\cos(\theta)^3\, \sin(\theta)}-{\sin(\theta)^3\, \cos(\theta)})=0
$$
The last equation holds because the multi of $0$ in the bounded function is zero.