Denoting the integral by $I_{m,n}$, write the generating function
\begin{align*}I(s,t)=&\sum_{m=0}^{\infty}\sum_{n=0}^{\infty}I_{m,n}\frac{s^m}{m!}\frac{t^n}{n!}=\\
=&\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}e^{-\frac{x^2(1+\lambda^2)}{2}}
\underbrace{\left(\sum_{m=0}^{\infty}H_m(\lambda x)\frac{s^m}{m!}\right)}_{e^{2\lambda x s-s^2}}
\underbrace{\left(\sum_{n=0}^{\infty}H_n( x)\frac{t^n}{n!}\right)}_{e^{2xt-t^2}}dx=\\
=&e^{-s^2-t^2}\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}e^{-\frac{x^2(1+\lambda^2)}{2}+2x(\lambda s+t)}dx=\\
=&\exp\left\{\frac{2(\lambda s+t)^2}{1+\lambda^2}-s^2-t^2\right\}\sqrt{\frac{2\pi}{1+\lambda^2}}.
\end{align*}
The rest should be clear. Of course, $I_{m,n}=0$ if $m,n$ are of different parity.