According to Humphreys, a Cartan sub-algebra of a Lie algebra $L$ is a nilpotent Lie sub-algebra whose normalizer is itself.
Look at analogous things in groups, or even in just finite groups.
If $G$ is a finite group, and if $H$ is a subgroup such that $H$ is nilpotent and is equal to its normalizer in $G$, what such subgroups are called? Have such subgroups studied? Is their existence in all finite groups studied/known?