Is this a good definition for $A\neq B$ ?
I define $A=B$ to be
$\forall x[(x\in A)\leftrightarrow (x\in B)]\label{1}\tag{1}$
If ($\ref{1}$) is my definition for "$=$", then its negation is ($\ref{2}$)
$\exists x[(x\notin A)\oplus(x\notin B)]\label{2}\tag{2}$
My question: Is ($\ref{2}$) a good definition for $A\neq B$ ? If it is not, which out of ($\ref{1}$) and ($\ref{2}$) is wrong?
($\ref{2}$) seems to say that the elements of A are not guaranteed to be the same as B. It does not appear to say that they will never be the same no matter which element we pick. This is what confused me about the definition, for I have sometimes thought of $\neq$ as meaning that they are never the same.
As a bonus question; would the negation of ($\ref{3}$) have any meaning?
$(A=B)\leftrightarrow(\forall x[(x\in A)\leftrightarrow (x\in B)])\label{3}\tag{3}$