In logic and probability theory, two propositions (or events) $a$ and $b$ are mutually exclusive if they cannot both be true (occur).
Let $R$ be a binary relation over propositions such that $(a,b)\in R$ denotes $a$ and $b$ are mutually exclusive.
I'm wondering what if $a$ and $b$ are identical.
In the common sense in mathematics, does $(a,a)\in R$ hold?
If not, what is the proper term that means "Only if $a$ and $b$ are distinct, they are mutually exclusive"?