Sketch of one direction:
Observe that $\|\alpha x\|=\inf\{\lambda>0:\alpha x/\lambda\in B\}$. Since this is an infimum, by the definition of an infimum, for all $\varepsilon>0$, there exists a $\lambda_\varepsilon$ such that
$\frac{\alpha x}{\lambda_\varepsilon}\in B$
$\|\alpha x\|\leq \lambda_\varepsilon<\|\alpha x\|+\varepsilon$.
Consider $\lambda'_\varepsilon:=\frac{\lambda_\varepsilon}{|\alpha|}$. This lambda satisfies $\frac{x}{\lambda'_\varepsilon}\in B$ since $\frac{x}{\lambda'_\varepsilon}=\frac{|\alpha| x}{\lambda_\varepsilon}$, which we know is in $B$ since $\frac{\alpha x}{\lambda_\varepsilon}\in B$ and $B$ is symmetric about the origin. Therefore, we know that $\lambda'_\varepsilon$ is one of the elements of $\{\lambda>0:x/\lambda\in B\}$. Hence, for the infimum, $\|x\|\leq\lambda'_\varepsilon$.
From the inequalities above, we know that
$$
\frac{1}{|\alpha|}\|\alpha x\|\leq \lambda'_\varepsilon<\frac{1}{|\alpha|}\|\alpha x\|+\frac{\varepsilon}{|\alpha|}.
$$
Combining inequalities, we know that
$$
\|x\|\leq\lambda'_\varepsilon<\frac{1}{|\alpha|}\|\alpha x\|+\frac{\varepsilon}{|\alpha|}.
$$
In other words,
$$
\|x\|<\frac{1}{|\alpha|}\|\alpha x\|+\frac{\varepsilon}{|\alpha|}.
$$
Since $\varepsilon$ was arbitrary, we can let it be as small as possible, and, in the limit, we get
$$
\|x\|\leq \frac{1}{|\alpha|}\|\alpha x\|.
$$
This gives the proof of one side, for the other direction, mimic this proof, but start with $\|x\|$. You can, alternatively, replace $\alpha x$ by $x$ and $\alpha$ by $\frac{1}{\alpha}$ to use this proof as a lemma.