Much depends on what you really consider the 'simplest', and what connectives you are allowed to use.
For example: are you trying to minimize the number of connectives used? Are you trying to minimize the length of the statement? Are you trying to minimize the number of types of connectives? Are you trying to minimize the 'depth' of the statement?
For your example, here is a pretty 'small' statement that captures it:
$p \lor (q \oplus r)$ (the $\oplus$ is sometimes better known as the XOR)
But if, as you say, we can use 'any necessary connectives', then the following works as well:
$*(p,q,r)$
What is $*$? Well, it is a three place (ternary) connective that works exactly as you just defined in the truth-table!
Of course, that's cheating you say, as well you should, but the point is this: what connectives are allowed, and which ones are not? Indeed, maybe you already object to the use of the $\oplus$?
Maybe you want to stick to the 'boolean operators' $\land$, $\lor$, and $\neg$ ... In that case, take a look at K-maps for a pretty good method to get fairly small (simple?) statements ... Although this method will not always find the expression with the least number of operators.
Equivalence rules like DeMorgan, Double Negation,Absorption, etc. can often be used to 'simplify' statements as well.
If you want to use the least number of types of operators, know that an expression can be captured using NAND's or NOR's only. ... The drawback is that your statemets get long. Indeed, there is a tradeoff between the number of types of operators, and how many instances of those operators you need to use.
For circuit design, we often want to decrease the 'depth' of a statement. That is, a statement in CNF or DNF can be implemented with NOT, AND, and OR gates in 3 steps, which is a pretty important practical result ... But again that may not represent the expression with the least number of operators ... Which itself may not be realizable in just 3 layers.
So, as you see, there are many ways to think about 'simplicity' of statements.