My Attempt:
I first applied the product rule to $$\fbox{$\color{blue}{\frac{d}{dr}\left(r^2\frac{dR(r)}{dr}\right)}$}\tag{1}\label1$$ to obtain $$2r\frac{dR(r)}{dr}+r^2\frac{d^2R(r)}{dr^2}\tag{2}\label2,$$ and then wrote out the chain rule for $$\frac{dR(r)}{dr}$$ as $$\frac{dR(r)}{dr}=\frac{dR(r)}{d \chi(r)}\frac{d\chi(r)}{dr}\tag{3}\label3.$$
Then from $\chi(r)=rR(r)$ and using the product rule again $$\frac{d\chi(r)}{dr}=R(r)+r\frac{d^2R(r)}{dr^2}\tag{4}\label4,$$ and since $R(r)=\dfrac{\chi(r)}{r},$ then $$\frac{dR(r)}{d \chi(r)}=\frac{1}{r}\tag{5}\label5.$$
Substituting $\eqref4$ and $\eqref5$ into $\eqref3$, I find that $$\frac{dR(r)}{dr}=\frac{1}{r}\left(R(r)+r\frac{d^2R(r)}{dr^2}\right)=\frac{1}{r}R(r)+\frac{d^2R(r)}{dr^2}\tag{6}\label6$$
Substituting $\eqref6$ into $\eqref2$ yields $$\begin{align}\fbox{$\color{blue}{\frac{d}{dr}\left(r^2\frac{dR(r)}{dr}\right)}$}&=2r\frac{dR(r)}{dr}+r^2\frac{d^2R(r)}{dr^2}\\&=2r\left(\frac{1}{r}R(r)+\frac{d^2R(r)}{dr^2}\right)+r^2\frac{d^2R(r)}{dr^2}\\&=2R(r)+(2r+r^2)\frac{d^2R(r)}{dr^2}.\end{align}$$
As you can see the expression I desire for $$\fbox{$\color{blue}{\frac{d}{dr}\left(r^2\frac{dR(r)}{dr}\right)}$}$$ is getting every-more complicated and I haven't even computed the second derivative of $R(r)$ yet. I fear that I am either making a mistake or missing a much simpler approach. In my notes it said that
It is straightforward to show that $$\frac{d}{dr}\left(r^2\frac{dR(r)}{dr}\right)=r\frac{d^2 \chi(r)}{dr^2}.$$
So this implies that I am missing something very simple.
If someone would care to point out my errors and/or give me any hints/tips on how to reach the desired result I would be most thankful. Regards.