Here's one way to look at it, if you accept directional derivatives (also has a nice illustration of the gradient).
Suppose we are interested in the direction of greatest increase of some $f(x,y)$. Then, by definition we should look at the rate of increase of $f$ in the direction $v$ via its directional derivative:
$$ R_f(v) = \nabla f\cdot \hat{v} $$
which is the rate of change of $f$ in the direction $v$. Intuitively, this is because you are projecting the total change (i.e. the gradient) of $f$ onto the direction vector $v$. It might be obvious that $R_f(v)$ is maximal when $v=\nabla f$, but you can easily see this by letting $$ \hat{v} = (\cos(\theta),\sin(\theta)) = \frac{(v_1,v_2)}{||(v_1,v_2)||_2} = \frac{v}{||v||_2}$$
so that (in 2D) $R_f(v) = \cos(\theta)\partial_xf + \sin(\theta)\partial_yf$. Notice that $\theta$ is simply the angle with the $x$ axis in the plane, so it determines the direction fully. Let's find the maximal $\theta$. Take $\partial_\theta R_f(v) = 0$ and you'll find $\theta=\arctan(\partial_y f/\partial_x f)$, which means $v = (v_1,v_2) = (\partial_x f, \partial_y f)=\nabla f$, as we expected. I.e. $ \max_v R_f(v) = (\nabla f\cdot \nabla f)/||\nabla f||_2 = ||\nabla f||_2 $. So the direction of maximal $R_f$ is $\nabla f$.
Ok, well for your specific example, $T(x,y)=x+y$, so $\nabla T = (1,1)$.
How can we see that walking along the gradient gives the greatest increase?
Let's just take a unit step (from the origin) in a few different directions to see why. Note that $T(0,0)=0$
First, in the $x$ direction, we take a step $s=(1,0)$, so $T(s)=1$. So we took a step of size $1$, and $T$ increased by 1.
Let's try in the $y$ direction: $s=(0,1)$, thus $T(s)=1$, so same as last time.
What about $s=(1,1)/\sqrt{2}$, which is a unit step in the gradient direction?
Well, $T(s)=\sqrt{2} > 1$. So even though we took a step of size $1$, our function grew about ${\sim}{1.4}$, rather than just by $1$, as it did in the other directions.
What about something in between? Say, $s=(0.921,0.395)$, so then $T(s)=1.316$. So, taking a step of size $1$ led to an increase of ${\sim}1.3$. This is between the other values, as we would kind of expect.