For the column space: note that the reduced row-echelon form of $A$ is given by
$$\mathrm{RREF}(A)=\begin{bmatrix}
1 & 0 & 1 & 2 \\
0 & 1 & 0 & 1 \\
0 & 0 & 0 & 0
\end{bmatrix}.$$
To find the column space of $A$, we want to look at the columns in $A$ which have leading $1$'s in $\mathrm{RREF}(A)$. Since columns one and two have leading $1$'s, then that tells us that
$$\left\{\begin{bmatrix}
1 \\
1 \\
-1
\end{bmatrix}, \begin{bmatrix}
2 \\
1 \\
1
\end{bmatrix}\right\}$$
forms a basis for $\mathrm{col}(A)$.
Moreover, the entries in columns three and four tell us exactly how to write said columns as a linear combination of the basis:
$$\begin{bmatrix}
1 \\
1 \\
-1
\end{bmatrix}=1\begin{bmatrix}
1 \\
1 \\
-1
\end{bmatrix}+0\begin{bmatrix}
2 \\
1 \\
1
\end{bmatrix},$$
$$\begin{bmatrix}
4 \\
3 \\
-1
\end{bmatrix}=2\begin{bmatrix}
1 \\
1 \\
-1
\end{bmatrix}+1\begin{bmatrix}
2 \\
1 \\
1
\end{bmatrix}.$$
Thus, columns three and four are indeed in $$\mathrm{span}\left\{\begin{bmatrix}
1 \\
1 \\
-1
\end{bmatrix}, \begin{bmatrix}
2 \\
1 \\
1
\end{bmatrix}\right\},$$
and $\left\{\begin{bmatrix}
1 \\
1 \\
-1
\end{bmatrix}, \begin{bmatrix}
2 \\
1 \\
1
\end{bmatrix}\right\}$ is a linearly independent set (if not, $\mathrm{RREF}(A)$ would not have a leading $1$ in both of the first two columns).