The original question: Let $\vec{q}$ be a unit vector $( \vec{q} \in \mathbb{R}^{n}, \left \| q \right \|=1 )$ and suppose that $\vec{q} \ne \vec{e}_{1}$ . Let $\vec{a} = \vec{q}-\vec{e}_{1}$ and $H_{\vec{a}}$ be the Householder matrix generated by the vector $\vec{a}$. Prove that the first column of $H_{\vec{a}}$ is the vector $\vec{q}$.
I understand that I have some vector $a$, which is the difference between two unit vectors, generating a Householder reflection. I need to show that $a$ plus $e_{1}$ is equal to the first column of $H_{a}$, which I can output by multiplication of the reflector and $e_{1}$. I feel like I am missing a basic principle here but I have wrestled with this for a few days and need some help.