Suppose that $\phi$ is the abelianization of some $G$. Moreover, suppose that $\phi(x) = \phi(y)$ for some $x,y \in G$. Is it true that this occurs if and only if $y = gxg^{-1}$ for some $g \in G$?
The one direction is trivial: if $y = gxg^{-1}$, then $\phi (y) = \phi(gxg^{-1}) = \phi(g)\phi(x)\phi(g)^{-1} = \phi(x)$. But what about the other?