Let $S$ be a set that contains at least two different elements. Let $R$ be the relation on $P(S)$, the power set of $S$, defined by $(X,Y)\in R$ if and only if $X\oplus Y = \varnothing$. Determine whether R is reflexive, symmetric, anti-symmetric, or transitive.
I'm having trouble just setting up the question. Is it $\{x,y,(x,y)\}$?