Question : For $T \in B(X,Y)$, where $X$ and $Y$ are Hilbert Spaces, $$\|\ x \|\ = \sup_{\|\ y \|\ = 1 } | \langle y , x \rangle | \hspace{1cm} \text{and} \hspace{1cm} \|\ T \|\ = \sup_{\|\ x \|\ = 1 = \|\ y \|\ } | \langle y , T(x) \rangle | .$$
To show that $$\|\ x \|\ = \sup_{\|\ y \|\ = 1 } | \langle y , x \rangle |$$ We first note that by Cauchy-Schwarz that $ \displaystyle\sup_{\|\ y \|\ = 1 } | \langle y , x \rangle |\leq \sup_{\|\ y \|\ = 1} \|\ x \|\ \|\ y \|\ = \|\ x \|\ $. For the reverse inequality, I think I need to set $x = y$, to get that $\displaystyle\sup_{\|\ y \|\ = 1} \langle x , x \rangle = \|\ x \|^{2} \geq \|\ x \|\ $. But I'm not sure if that is right.
For showing $$\|\ T \|\ = \sup_{\|\ x \|\ = 1 = \|\ y \|\ } | \langle y , T(x) \rangle | $$ again first by Cauchy-Schwarz $$\sup_{\|\ x \|\ = 1 = \|\ y \|\ } | \langle y , T(x) \rangle | \leq \sup_{\|\ x \|\ = 1 = \|\ y \|\ } \|\ y \|\ \|\ Tx \|\ \leq \sup_{\|\ x \|\ = 1 = \|\ y \|\ } \|\ y \|\ \|\ T \|\ \|\ x \|\ = \|\ T \|\ $$ For the reverse inequality, again not sure but setting $x = y$, we obtain: $$ \sup_{\|\ x \|\ = 1 = \|\ y \|\ } | \langle x , T(x) \rangle | = \|\ x \|^2 \|\ T \|\ \geq \|\ T \|\ $$