Suppose $f$ and $\alpha$ are bounded, real-valued functions on $[a,b]$.
Prove: $f \in R(\alpha)$ on $[a,b]\iff \forall \epsilon > 0, \exists P_\epsilon \in \mathcal{P} [a,b]$ such that, for all partitions $P$ and $P'$ finer than $P_\epsilon$, and all Riemann-Stieltjes sums $S(P,f,\alpha)$ and $S(P',f,\alpha)$, \begin{equation*} |S(P,f,\alpha)-S(P',f,\alpha)|<\epsilon \end{equation*}
(Notation: $f \in R(\alpha)$ means f is Riemann-Stieltjes integrable with respect to $\alpha$. $\mathcal{P} [a,b]$ means the set of all partitions on $[a,b]$.)
Attempt:
($\Rightarrow$)
In the forward direction ($f \in R(\alpha)$) we have: $\forall \epsilon > 0, \exists P_\epsilon$ such that \begin{equation} |S(P,f,\alpha)-\int _{a}^{b} fd\alpha| + |\int _{a}^{b} fd\alpha-S(P',f,\alpha)|<\epsilon/2 + \epsilon/2 = \epsilon \end{equation} \begin{equation} \Rightarrow |S(P,f,\alpha)-S(P',f,\alpha)|<\epsilon \text{ by triangle inequality} \end{equation}
($\Leftarrow$)
For the converse: $|S(P,f,\alpha)-S(P',f,\alpha)|<\epsilon$ implies that $\forall m \in \mathbb{N}$ there is a partition $P_m$ such that for all $P, P'$ finer than $P_m$ we have that $|S(P,f,\alpha)-S(P',f,\alpha)|<\frac{1}{m}$.
I'm not sure how to progress from here.