My question was put a little bit odd but it's kind of hard to explain what I am trying to do. I have 3 points defined in 3D space. They form a triangle and I am trying to find how does moving the points relate to the surface area of the triangle or with other words I am searching the gradient of the triangle's surface area given these 3 points. So my idea is to calculate the gradient for each point individually.
My question is:
If I have a point how to calculate the direction of the vector, that starts from the opposite side of the given point, which is also orthogonal to that side from which it starts .
I tried to draw my idea so it can be a little bit more clear what I am trying to achieve. 
Thanks in advance !