Yes, you are correct. The derivative is defined to make $f(a,b)+\varepsilon \frac{\partial f}{\partial x}(a,b)$ a linear approximation to $f(a+\varepsilon,b)$ as $\varepsilon \to 0$, in that the difference between these two things is sublinear, i.e. in little-$o$ notation,
$$ f(a+\varepsilon,b) = f(a,b)+\varepsilon \frac{\partial f}{\partial x}(a,b) + o(\varepsilon) \quad \text{as } \varepsilon \to 0. $$
Rearranging this gives the definition,
$$ \frac{\partial f}{\partial x}(a,b) = \frac{f(a+\varepsilon,b) - f(a,b)}{\varepsilon} + o(1) \quad \text{as } \varepsilon \to 0. $$
$1$ is normally considered quite a large number compared to $\varepsilon$[citation needed], so you're right to query this usage; presumably the point they want to get across is that your first estimate of how much $f$ increases when you add one unit of $x$ is to add the partial derivative on, thinking about situations where $f$ has sufficiently low relative curvature and $1$ is a relatively small amount (I add one atom to my mole, I add one unit of currency onto my spending, ...) that this initial approximation is reasonable, rather than literally correct.