
Is there a winning strategy for 3 rounds for Duplicator? I cannot see any.
Strategy for Ehrenfeucht's game.

Is there a winning strategy for 3 rounds for Duplicator? I cannot see any.
Strategy for Ehrenfeucht's game.
Fabio's answer is correct, but we can do better: Spoiler can win in two rounds. Namely, play $b_1$ and $b_3$; however Duplicator responds, the vertices of $A$ they choose will be connected (or equal).
Spoiler wins in three rounds by picking $a_1$, $a_2$, $a_3$. Duplicator must then pick three of the $b_i$'s, but there's no way to get a partial isomorphism between structures $A$ and $B$ that way.
Since Spoiler's three picks are distinct, the three $b_i$ must be distinct. But then it's easy to check that at least one pair of $b_i$'s is not in the edge relation.
Since Spoiler wins in three rounds, Duplicator doesn't have a strategy for three rounds.