If I'm told to prove that $\lim \limits_{n \to \infty}{\frac{1}{n^2}} = 0$, I would do the following:
$|\frac{1}{n^2} - 0| = \frac{1}{n^2} < \epsilon \implies N(\epsilon) = \frac{1}{\sqrt{\epsilon}} < n$
Every $\epsilon > 0$ is defined, so $\frac{1}{n^2} \to \infty$.
However, what if I'm not told $L = 0$? How would I find that $L = 0$, without looking at graphs or testing increasingly larger $n$?
I used $a_n = \frac{1}{n^2}$ as a simple example. I'd prefer some method that works for other sequences, too.