This is conditional probability mass problem.
Thoughts: I get the basic pieces. I know the probability of taking y rolls to get a 4 is $ (\frac{5}{6})^{y-1}(\frac{1}{6}) $, and that the probability of getting x 3s in those y rolls is $ {{y}\choose{x}}(\frac{1}{6})^{x}(\frac{5}{6})^{y-x} $.
Problem: I'm not sure what to do with information to get $ p_{X|Y}(X=x | Y=y) $. I feel like I'm missing something about counting for the 3s, like I should exclude them from the $ p_Y(y) $ part.
I know $ p_{X|Y}(x | y) = \frac{p_{X,Y}(x,y)}{p_Y(y)}$, but I'm struggling to find the joint PMF. This is why I don't think my "just multiply them" approach works; If I just multiply $p(X=x)$ and $p(Y=y)$, then I'm just dividing that product by $p(Y=y)$ and end up with $p(X=x)$ again.