Hungerford's book Algebra defines class, set, and category informally. Class and $\in$ are left as primitive notions. The definitions are, mostly verbatim:
A class $A$ is defined to be a set if and only if there exists some class $B$ such that $A\in B$.
And:
A category is a class $\mathcal{C}$ of objects (denoted $A,B,C,\ldots$), together with (morphisms, composition, associativity, etc.)
I want to write $A\in\mathcal{C}$, which by the definitions in Hungerford imply that $A$ is a set. However, every document I see uses the terminology "Let $A$ be an object of $\mathcal{C}$" rather than "$A\in\mathcal{C}$". Is this just convention, or is $A\in \mathcal{C}$ incorrect notation?
Secondly, does this cause any problem with the notion of a concretizable category? I can imagine that even though all objects of $\mathcal{C}$ are sets, the morphisms may only be abstract and may not be able to be written as actual functions between the sets. That way, there would be no contradiction between the existence of non-concretizable categories.