I was asked on a test to find the number of relations on a set with 10 elements which is both symmetric and asymmetric.
Now since any element of the type
$$ (a,b) \quad where \quad b \neq a $$ cannot exist in such a relation (I think).
This problem essentially reduces to the statement whether a relation which only has elements of the type $ (a,a)$ (elements found on the main diagonal of the matrix form of R) is a relation which is both symmetric and asymmetric?