Let $M$ be a manifold of dimension $m$ and class $C^k (k\ge 0)$. Given a point $p\in M$, let's define the tangent vector space $T_pM\subset \mathbb R^n$ at $p$.
Given a parametrization $\varphi:V_0\to V$ of class $C^k$ in a neighborhood $V$ of $p$ with $\varphi(a)=p$. The tangent vector space $T_pM$ is defined as the image of linear transformation $\varphi'(a)$, i.e, $T_pM=\varphi'(a)\cdot\mathbb R^m$.
I think $p\in T_pM$ because of some pictures I have seen and because of the name "tangent vector space at $p$" is very suggestive that $p\in T_pM$. I'm sorry if my question is too silly, I'm a beginner in this subject. I would like to know why $p\in T_pM$.