I think that you can't get non-trivial bounds for any $\ell^p$ norm. Fix $p \in [1, \infty]$. Assume that there exists a sequence $(K_n)$ such that, for all $f \in \mathcal{C} ([0,1])$, for all $(a_{n,i})$ and $(c_{n,i})$ such that the associated Bernstein polynomials $A_n$ and $C_n$ converge uniformly to $f$,
$$\lim_{n \to + \infty} K_n \|a_{n,\cdot}-c_{n,\cdot}\|_{\ell^p} = 0.$$
Fix $f$ compactly supported in $(0,1)$. Choose $a_{n,i} := f(i/n)$. Then, let $a_{n,i}^{(0)} := a_{n,i}+a_{n,i+1}$ if $i$ is even, and $0$ otherwise. Similarly, define $a_{n,i}^{(1)} := a_{n,i}+a_{n,i-1}$ if $i$ is odd, and $0$ otherwise.
Since $b_{n,i+1}/b_{n,i}$ converges to $1$ uniformly in $i$ as long as $0 \ll i \ll n$, and since all the $a_{n,i}$ are $0$ for $i$ close to $0$ or $n$ (because $f$ is compactly supported), we get that $A_n^{(0)}$ and $A_n^{(1)}$ both converge uniformly to $f$ (that section would require more details, but I only foresee some tedious $\varepsilon-\delta$ arguments).
By hypothesis,
$$\lim_{n \to + \infty} K_n \|a_{n,i}^{(0)}-a_{n,i}^{(1)}\|_{\ell^p} = 0.$$
But, since $a_{n,i}^{(0)}$ and $a_{n,i}^{(1)}$ have disjoint support but take the same values, using the expression for the $\ell^p$ norm,
$$\|a_{n,i}^{(0)}-a_{n,i}^{(1)}\|_{\ell^p} = 2^{\frac{1}{p}} \|a_{n,i}^{(0)}\|_{\ell^p} \sim 2^{1+\frac{1}{p}} \|a_{n,i}\|_{\ell^p}.$$
Hence, $$\lim_{n \to + \infty} K_n \|a_{n,i}\|_{\ell^p} = 0$$. This sequence of norm is not strong enough to distinguish the uniform convergence of Bernstein polynomials.
The problem is that, as $n$ grow large, polynomials $b_{n,i}$ with close values of $i$ get very correlated (and somewhat interchangeable). This clashes with the expression for the $\ell^p$ norm, which doesn't distinguish between indices which are close and indices farther away.