Assuming leading zeros allow us to assume all numbers have six digits you need.
A) 1 non-nine odd, two different evens, 3 nines
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B) 1 (non-nine odd), two same evens, 3 nines
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C) 3 non-nine odds, all different, 3 nines
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D) 3 non-nine odds, two the same, 3 nines
E) 3 non-nine odds, all the same, 3 nines.
There are $4$ odds to choose from and $5$ evens.
A) is $4*5*4*{3\choose 1}{6 \choose 3}$. That is, $4$ choices for the non-nine odd, $5$ for the first even, $4$ for the second even. There are ${3\choose 1}$ ways to arrange the odd digit among the two even digits. And there are ${6\choose 3}$ ways to place the three nines among six digits.
B) is $4*5{3\choose 1}{6 \choose 3}$. That is, $4$ choices for the first non-nine odd, $5$ choices for the two evens. There are ${3\choose 1}$ ways to arrange the odd digit among the two even digits. And there are ${6\choose 3}$ ways to place the three nines among six digits.
C) is $4*3*2{6\choose 3}$
D) is $4*3{3 \choose 2}{6\choose 3}/2$
E) is $4*{6 \choose 3}$
There is an alternative.
There is ${6 \choose 3}$ ways to arrange three $9$s is six positions. There are $9^3$ possible options for the remaining three digits. $5^3$ of them are all evens (as there are $5$ choices of non-nine evens). $4^3$ are all odd (as there are $4$ choices of non-nine odds). $4*5^2{3\choose 1}$ of those have $1$ odd and $2$ evens. $4^2*5{3\choose 1}$ of those have $2$ odds and $1$ even.
Detour: Verify the $9^3 = 5^3 + 5^2*4*{3\choose 1} + 5*4^2*{3\choose 1} + 4^3$
$9^3 = (5+4)^3 = 5^3 + 5^2*4*{3\choose 1} + 5*4^2*{3\choose 1} + 4^3$ is just the binomial theorem. Nothing to verify.
End of detour.
Of those $5^3$ (three evens) and $5*4^2*3$ (two odds, one even) have an even sum of digits. So when three $9$s are added the sum will be odd.
So there are ${6 \choose 3}(5^3 + 5*4^2*3)$ six digit numbers with exactly three $9$s and an even sum of digits.