Your geometric intuition is good. Here is an arithmetic proof.
For convenience (to avoid having to write the same thing many times),
let $P$ be the conjunction
$x < 0 \leq y \land \lvert x \rvert > \lvert y \rvert.$
Suppose $P$ is true. Then:
Since $x < 0 \leq y,$ we know that
$\lvert x \rvert = -x$ and $\lvert y \rvert = y.$
Since $\lvert x \rvert > \lvert y \rvert,$
we have $y < -x,$ so $x + y < 0$ and
$\lvert x + y \rvert = -(x+y).$ This proves part 4.
Furthermore, $-(x+y) = -x - y = \lvert x \rvert - \lvert y \rvert,$
so $\lvert x + y \rvert = \lvert x \rvert - \lvert y \rvert.$
This proves part 3.
On the other hand,
$\lvert x + y \rvert - (x - y) = -(x + y) - (x - y) = -2x > 0,$
so $\lvert x + y \rvert \neq (x - y),$
disproving part 1. (That is, $P$ implies statement 1 is false.)
Also, $\lvert x + y \rvert - (-x + y) = -(x + y) - (-x + y) = -2y.$
That is, $\lvert x + y \rvert = (-x + y) - 2y.$
Therefore $P$ implies that statement 2 is true if and only if $y = 0$;
$P$ alone (without the additional condition $y=0$)
do not imply statement 2.
So the conjunction $x < 0 \leq y \land \lvert x \rvert > \lvert y \rvert$
implies statements 3 and 4 but not statements 1 and 2.