This answer is based upon generating functions. We start by considering the generating function of all partitions of $n$
\begin{align*}
\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1}{1-z^m}=\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1}{(1-z^{2m})(1-z^{2m-1})}\tag{1}
\end{align*}
From the RHS of (1) we derive $A(z,t)$, a generating function of all partitions with marked odd parts and $B(z,t)$, a generating function with marked even parts.
\begin{align*}
A(z,t)&=\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1}{(1-z^{2m})(1-tz^{2m-1})}\\
&=1+tz+(t^2+1)z^2+(t^3+2t)z^3+(t^4+2t^2+2)z^4\\
&\qquad+(t^5+2t^3+4t)z^5+\cdots\\
B(z,t)&=\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1}{(1-tz^{2m})(1-z^{2m-1})}\\
&=1+z+(t+1)z^2+(t+2)z^3+(t^2+2t+2)z^4\\
&\qquad+(t^2+3t+3)z^5+\cdots
\end{align*}
Similarly we obtain a generating function $C(z,t)$ with marked odd multiplicities by separating terms with odd and even index
\begin{align*}
C(z,t)&=\prod_{m=1}^{\infty}\left(\frac{1}{1-z^{2m}}+\frac{tz^m}{1-z^{2m}}\right)\\
&=\prod_{m=1}^{\infty}\frac{1+tz^m}{1-z^{2m}}\\
&=1+tz+(t+1)z^2+(t^2+2t)z^3+(t^2+2t+2)z^4\\
&\qquad+(3t^2+4t)z^5+\cdots
\end{align*}
In terms of generating functions the equality of the difference between the number of odd and even partitions of a number $n$ and the number of odd multiplicities of the partitions of $n$ translates to the following
Claim:
\begin{align*}
\left.\frac{\partial}{\partial t}A(z,t)\right|_{t=1}-\left.\frac{\partial}{\partial t}B(z,t)\right|_{t=1}
=\left.\frac{\partial}{\partial t}C(z,t)\right|_{t=1}
\end{align*}
Before we show the claim we do a plausibility check and look at partitions of small $n=1,\ldots,5$.
\begin{array}{c|ccc|l}
n
&[z^n]\left.\frac{\partial}{\partial t}A(z,t)\right|_{t=1}
&[z^n]\left.\frac{\partial}{\partial t}B(z,t)\right|_{t=1}
&[z^n]\left.\frac{\partial}{\partial t}C(z,t)\right|_{t=1}
&partitions\\
1&1&0&1&1\\
2&2&1&1&2,1^2\\
3&5&1&4&3,21,1^3\\
4&8&4&4&4,31,2^2,21^2,1^4\\
5&15&5&10&5,41,32,31^2,2^21,21^3,1^5\\
\hline
\end{array}
Here we see the coefficients of the power series for $n=1,\ldots,5$ and observe the difference of odd and even parts coincides with the number of odd multiplicities. :-)
The right-most column lists the partitions of $n$ with the compact notation e.g. $21^3$ is a short-hand for $2+1+1+1$.
We obtain using logarithmic differentiation
\begin{align*}
\left.\frac{\partial}{\partial t}A(z,t)\right|_{t=1}
&=\left.\frac{\partial}{\partial t}\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1}{(1-z^{2m})(1-tz^{2m-1})}\right|_{t=1}\\
&=\left.\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1}{(1-z^{2m})(1-tz^{2m-1})}\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^{2k-1}}{1-z^{2k-1}}\right|_{t=1}\\
&=\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1}{(1-z^{2m})(1-z^{2m-1})}\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^{2k-1}}{1-z^{2k-1}}\\
&=\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1}{1-z^{m}}\color{blue}{\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^{2k-1}}{1-z^{2k-1}}}\\
\end{align*}
and similarly
\begin{align*}
\left.\frac{\partial}{\partial t}B(z,t)\right|_{t=1}
&=\left.\frac{\partial}{\partial t}\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1}{(1-tz^{2m})(1-z^{2m-1})}\right|_{t=1}\\
&=\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1}{1-z^{m}}\color{blue}{\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^{2k}}{1-z^{2k}}}\\
\end{align*}
Next we get
\begin{align*}
\left.\frac{\partial}{\partial t}C(z,t)\right|_{t=1}
&=\left.\frac{\partial}{\partial t}\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1+tz^m}{1-z^{2m}}\right|_{t=1}\\
&=\left.\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1+tz^m}{1-z^{2m}}\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^k}{1+tz^k}\right|_{t=1}\\
&=\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1+z^m}{1-z^{2m}}\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^k}{1+z^k}\\
&=\prod_{m=1}^\infty\frac{1}{1-z^{m}}\color{blue}{\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^k}{1+z^k}}
\end{align*}
We observe the claim is valid if the following holds:
\begin{align*}
\color{blue}{\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^{2k-1}}{1-z^{2k-1}}
-\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^{2k}}{1-z^{2k}}
=\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^k}{1+z^k}}\tag{2}
\end{align*}
We start with the left-hand side of (2) and get
\begin{align*}
\color{blue}{\sum_{k=1}^\infty}&\color{blue}{\frac{z^{2k-1}}{1-z^{2k-1}}
-\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^{2k}}{1-z^{2k}}}\\
&=\sum_{k=1}^\infty\left(\frac{z^{k}}{1-z^{k}}-\frac{z^{2k}}{1-z^{2k}}\right)
-\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^{2k}}{1-z^{2k}}\\
&=\sum_{k=1}^\infty\left(\frac{z^{k}}{1-z^{k}}-\frac{2z^{2k}}{1-z^{2k}}\right)\\
&=\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^k}{1-z^k}\left(1-\frac{2z^k}{1+z^k}\right)\\
&=\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^k}{1-z^k}\cdot\frac{1-z^k}{1+z^k}\\
&\color{blue}{=\sum_{k=1}^\infty\frac{z^k}{1+z^k}}
\end{align*}
and the claim follows.