Too long for a comment.. I'm definitely not an expert for this but for the first half of the question, well, it seems to me that the second diagram is really just a "reformulation" of the first.
In the first diagram, a horn in $\Delta^n$ is mapped into $Hom(L,X)$. Further, the $\Delta^n$ is mapped to $Hom(K,X)\times_{\ldots} Hom(L,Y)$.
In other words, you have an $n$-simplex both in $Hom(K,X)$ as well as in $Hom(L,Y)$ so that its images under $p_*$ resp $i_*$ coincide. The question is, can you map $\Delta^n$ into $Hom(L,X)$ compatibly with the prescribed map on the horn?
Apparently, the second diagram asks exactly the same question: in the first row, you have the same data --- the $n$-simplex in $Hom(K,X)$ is identified with a map $\Delta^n\times K\to X$ via this "exponential law", the horn map $\Lambda\to Hom(L,Y)$ is identified with $\Lambda\times L\to X$, and it is required that the restriction to $\Lambda\times K$ is "compatible". And the question is the same as before: can you extend it from $\Lambda\times L\to X$ into $\Delta^n\times L\to X$ (so that it is prescribed on $\Delta^n\times K$)?