Let's say the man's age is M, his wife's W, his son's S, and his daughter's D. Then we have $M = W + 1$, so $W = M - 1$. The product of their ages is $17$ times the product of the ages of their son and their daughter: $M(M-1) = 17SD$. $D = S - 1$. So we have $M(M-1) = 17S(S-1)$.
One significant factor is that $M$ and $S$ must be whole numbers, and $M(M-1)$ must be divisible by $17$, which means either $M$ or $M - 1$ is divisible by $17$. So $M$ must be $17, 18, 34, 35, 51, 52, 68, 69, 85, 86$ (or a few more options, depending on the man's lifespan).
The next relevant issue is divisibility by $3$. Modulo $3$, $n(n - 1)$ must be either $0$ or $2$. If $S(S-1)$ is $2$ mod $3$, then $17S(S-1)$ is $1$ mod $3$ and no value of $M$ will work; so it must be that $S(S-1)$ is divisible by $3$ (so $M(M-1)$ is as well). Now our options for $M$ are reduced to $18, 34, 51, 52, 69,$ or $85$. This is small enough to check.
$18(18 - 1) = 18 \cdot 17$, so $S(S - 1) = 18$. No integer $S$ works for this.
$34(34 - 1) = 66 \cdot 17$, so $S(S - 1) = 66$. No integer $S$ works for this.
$51(51 - 1) = 150 \cdot 17$, so $S(S - 1) = 150$. No integer $S$ works for this, either.
$52(52 - 1) = 156 \cdot 17$, so $S(S - 1) = 156$, which is satisfied if $S = 13$.
$69(69 - 1) = 276 \cdot 17$, so $S(S - 1) = 276$, which is never satisfied.
$85(85 - 1) = 420 \cdot 17$, so $S(S - 1) = 420$, which is satisfied if $S = 21$.
So our two possible ages for the son are $13$ and $21$; $13 + 21 = 34$.