Elementary Statistics (Larson 4th ed) gives this example of Poisson, typical in my opinion. The mean number of accidents per month at a certain intersection is three. What is the probability that in any given month four accidents will occur at this intersection?
That's all that's given, and somehow it's sufficient to find the probability. But it seems common sense that some intersections (with an average of three per month) are more consistently three per month and therefore rarely see four in a month. While other intersections (with an average of three per month) see two, three or four with equal frequency, and often see four in a month. Poisson claims that this is not true: both of these intersections have the same probability of four accidents in the next month, because they both average three per month. How is it possible that this question does not arise, we need not measure the variance, and we just push on?
I'm asking for an explanation that is (as nearly as possible) in English sentences rather than computations.