Let $G$ be a self-complementary graph of order $4n+1$ and let $\sigma:G\to\overline G$ be an isomorphism. Since $G$ and $\overline G$ have the same vertex set $V,$ $\sigma$ is a permutation of $V,$ an anti-automorphism of $G,$ mapping edges of $G$ to edges of $\overline G$ and vice versa.
Consider the cycle decomposition of the permutation $\sigma.$ (Note that we are using the word "cycle" in the group theory sense, not the graph theory sense!) Each nontrivial cycle of $\sigma$ must be of even length, since edges of $G$ alternate with edges of $\overline G$ as we go around the cycle. Since $|V|$ is even, $\sigma$ must have a $1$-cycle, i.e., a fixed point. (It's clear that the fixed point is unique, but we don't need that.)
Let $v$ be a fixed point of $\sigma.$ Since $\sigma$ is an isomorphism between $G$ and $\overline G,$ we must have $\deg_G(v)=deg_{\overline G}(v).$ Since $\deg_G(v)+\deg_{\overline G}(v)=4n,$ it follows that $\deg_G(v)=\deg_{\overline G}(v)=2n.$
P.S. It's also easy to see that the length of a nontrivial cycle of $\sigma$ is not only even, it's a multiple of $4;$ and if one vertex in a cycle has degree $2n,$ then all vertices in that cycle have degree $2n.$ Since $\sigma$ has a unique fixed point, it follows that the number of vertices of degree $2n$ is congruent to $1$ modulo $4.$
Examples. There are two self-complementary graphs of order $5.$ One of them is $C_5,$ which has five vertices of degree $2;$ the other is homeomorphic to the letter A and has one vertex of degree $2.$