Suppose we have quadratic form $$f(a,b,c)=ax^2+bxy+cy^2\in\Bbb Q[x,y]$$ is there a transformation of $a,b,c$ or $x,y$ which takes $f(a,b,c)$ to $$\tilde f(a',b,c')=a'x^2-bxy+c'y^2\in\Bbb Q[x,y]$$ at least for a dense subset of $(a,b,c,x,y)\in\Bbb Q^3\times\Bbb Q^2$ other than trivial cases like sign changes of $x$ or $y$ or $b$ or $b=0$ or $x=0$ or $y=0$ where $a\neq -a'$ or $c\neq -c'$ holds?
An action would be like a linear transformation of variables $a,b,c,x,y$
Is there a name for these pairs of quadratic forms in literature?