Let's first symbolize it, and then we'll worry about putting it into a Horn clause.
OK, the straughtforward symbolization is:
$\forall x \forall y ((Man(x) \land Woman(x,y) \land Likes(x,y)) \rightarrow (Likes(y,x) \rightarrow Happy(x)))$
Using Exportation ($P \rightarrow (Q \rightarrow R) \Leftrightarrow (P\land Q) \rightarrow R$) we can rewrite this as:
$\forall x \forall y ((Man(x) \land Woman(y) \land Likes(x,y) \land Likes(y,x)) \rightarrow Happy(x))$
Drop the quantifiers, and this is your 1)
Your 2) is not correct, because first of all it is not the correct symbolization (note that $Likes(x,y) \leftrightarrow Likes(y,x)$ would be true if both $Likes(x,y)$ and $Likes(y,x)$ are false, which would certainly not make the man happy), and second, it is not even a Horn clause.