Suppose $\lim\limits_{h\to 0}\frac{r(h)}{h} = 0$, does it imply $\lim\limits_{h\to 0} r(h) = 0$?
My reasoning says that the answer is yes.
So if $\frac{r(h)}{h} = 0$, then nothing to prove. If $\frac{r(h)}{h} = a(h)$ where $\lim\limits_{h\to 0} a(h) = 0$, then $r(h) = a(h)h$, hence $$\lim_{h\to 0} r(h) = \lim_{h\to 0} [a(h)h] = \lim_{h\to 0} [a(h)] \cdot \lim_{h\to 0} h$$ (since $\lim ab=\lim a \cdot \lim b$).
And therefore $\lim\limits_{h\to 0} r(h) = 0$.
But if this is true, then why in the definition of differentiation we write
$$\lim_{h\to 0} \frac{|f(x+h) - f(x) - Df(a)(h)|}{|h|} = 0$$ instead of $$\lim_{h\to 0} |f(x+h) - f(x) - Df(a)(h)| = 0?$$