The intuition behind the definition of convergence of a sequence $\{X_n\}$ to $X$ is that, given some amount of error (i.e. given $\varepsilon>0$), we can go far enough in the sequence (i.e. looking at terms past $N(\varepsilon)$) and only get values whose error is less than $\varepsilon$ (i.e. $|X_n-X|<\varepsilon$ for $n\geq N(\varepsilon)$).
In other words, given $\varepsilon>0$, the integer $N(\varepsilon)$ tells us how far we have to go in the sequence to ensure that the error in replacing the limit by a value from the sequence is no greater than $\varepsilon$. How one determines $N(\varepsilon)$ depends on the sequence in question, and there is no general method for determining $N(\varepsilon)$.
And to answer your second question, the quantified definition of a limit, that is, $\forall\varepsilon>0\ \exists N(\varepsilon)\in\mathbb N\ \forall n\geq N(\varepsilon)\ |X_n-X|<\varepsilon$, should be typeset as
$\forall\varepsilon>0\ \exists N(\varepsilon)\in\mathbb N\ \forall n\geq N(\varepsilon)\ |X_n-X|<\varepsilon$