Your first answer is essentially correct, and it's possible that that's all your professor is really looking for, if this say an intro complex analysis class and you haven't studied topology yet.
Here's an example of what a proper mathematical proof of something like this might look like.
The definition of a connected set is something like this:
A set is connected iff given $x$, $y$ in the set, there is a curve from $x$ to $y$ which stays inside the set.
Except that "curve" has to be replaced with a proper definition:
A curve from $x$ to $y$ is a continuous function $f$ from $[0, 1]$ to $\mathbb C$ such that $f(0)=x$ and $f(1)=y$.
Remember that even "continuous function" isn't just an intuitive concept, it too has a precise technical definition involving $\epsilon$-s and $\delta$-s! All of these technicalities are going to have to show up in your proof in some way, either explicitly or in the form of theorems which themselves are proven using them.
You want an argument that basically says that a continuous curve can't go from the first disk to the second disk without going through the gap in between. In this case the simplest way is probably to use the intermediate value theorem:
Let $x$ be in the disk of radius $1$ around $0$ and $y$ be in the disk of radius $1$ around $2$. Let $f(t)$ be some curve from $x$ to $y$. Then the function $|f(t)|$ is a continuous real valued function (because it's a composition of continuous functions). $|f(0)|=|x|<1$, but $|f(1)|=|y|>1$, where you can prove the second inequality by the triangle inequality:
$$|y|=|2+(y-2)|\geq|2|-|y-2|>1$$
(I used a slightly less common, but equivalent form of the triangle inequality, which is $|a+b|\geq|a|-|b|$). Anyway, by the intermediate value theorem, there exists some $t\in[0, 1]$ such that $|f(t)|=1$. But then $f(t)$ can't be in either disk. It clearly isn't in the first disk, and by using the triangle inequality again you can prove it isn't in the second disk either.
Notice how we got lucky here because the formal definition of your set, using the definition of a disk, happened to be very mathematically simple. If we'd had some crazy blob shapes instead of disks, it might not have been so easy.