A linear vector space $\mathbb{V}$ is set of elements $|\psi\rangle,|\phi\rangle,|\chi\rangle...$, called vectors, defined on a field $\mathbb{F}$ of scalars $(a,b,c,...)$ such that it satisfy (among other properties) that for any two elements $|\psi\rangle,|\phi\rangle \in\mathbb{V}$, there exist a definite rule of addition such that $$|\phi\rangle +|\psi\rangle=|\psi\rangle +|\phi\rangle \in \mathbb{V}$$
My question are: 1. What kind of addition rule will be non-commutative? I want an example. 2. How can the associative law of addition fail? 3. What could be an example where $|\phi\rangle +|\psi\rangle$ does not belong to $\mathbb{V}$ but $|\phi\rangle,|\psi\rangle\in\mathbb{V}$?