Suppose the two lines are given by $At+a$ and $Bs+b$, where $a$ is a fixed point on one, $b$ on the other. Then the vector between a point on each line is
$$ At-Bs+(a-b). \tag{1}$$
Hence the problem is mathematically the same as finding the shortest distance from the plane given by $ At-Bs $ to the point $a-b$.
The shortest distance is when the vector in $(1)$ is perpendicular to $A$ and $B$, i.e. a multiple of $A \times B$, which is nonzero since $A \not\parallel B$ and $A,B \neq 0$. Hence we have
$$ At^*-Bs^*+(a-b) = \nu (A \times B), $$
for the optimal values $t^*,s^*$.
We can now get straight to $\nu$ by dotting with $A \times B$:
$$ (a-b) \cdot (A \times B) = \nu\lVert A \times B \rVert^2. $$
The length of the vector (and hence the distance between the lines) is then
$$ \lVert \nu (A \times B) \rVert = \lvert \nu \rvert \lVert A \times B \rVert = \frac{\lvert (a-b) \cdot (A \times B) \rvert}{\lVert A \times B \rVert^2} \lVert A \times B \rVert = \frac{\lvert (a-b) \cdot (A \times B) \rvert}{\lVert A \times B \rVert}. $$