Let's try it the way other people do it:
$$
\int u\frac{dv}{dx}\,dx = uv -\int v\frac{du}{dx}\,dx,
$$
letting $u=\ln x$ and $v = \frac{x^2}2,$ gives us
\begin{align}
\int (\ln x)(x)\,dx
&= (\ln x)\left(\frac{x^2}2\right)
- \int \left(\frac{x^2}2\right)\left(\frac 1x\right)\,dx \\
&= \frac{x^2 \ln x}2 - \int \frac x2\,dx
\end{align}
Integrated over the interval $x\in[1,2]$ this becomes
\begin{align}
\int_1^2 x \ln x\,dx
&= \left[\frac{x^2 \ln x}2\right]_1^2 - \int_1^2 \frac x2\,dx \\
&= \left(\frac{2^2 \ln 2}2 - \frac{1^2 \ln 1}2\right)
- \left(\frac{2^2}4 - \frac{1^2}4\right) \\
&= (2 \ln 2 - 0) - \left(1 - \frac14\right) \\
&= \ln 4 - \frac 34.
\end{align}
Your way is to write $\int v$ where other people write $v,$
so you write $v$ where they write $\frac{dv}{dx}.$
So far so good, but remember that in the two places where you
write $\int v$ on the right-hand side, you must substitute the
same antiderivative of $v$ in each place--that is, in the rightmost
integral you must multiply $\frac{du}{dx}$ by the same function of
$x$ that you multiply with $u$ in the first term on the right.
You do not multiply $\frac{du}{dx}$ by a definite integral with given bounds, because that is a constant, not the desired function of $x.$
In short, when you make your substitutions for $u$ and $v$
the results should be just like the ones above.
While it was a mistake for you to write
$\left[\frac{x^2}2\right]_1^2$ where you should have written just
$\frac{x^2}2$ in the integral on the right-hand side, you made a
second serious error on top of that:
$$
\left[\frac{x^2}2\right]_1^2 \frac1x
= \left(2 - \frac12\right) \cdot \frac1x = \frac3{2x},
$$
but
$$
\left[\frac x2\right]_1^2 = 1 - \frac12 = \frac12.
$$
The expression $\left[\frac x2\right]_1^2$ is not a legitimate
substitute for $\left[\frac{x^2}2\right]_1^2 \frac1x$
unless you happen to be evaluating both in an environment where $x$
is a constant $3$ outside the square brackets.
Of course you only had the opportunity to make this mistake because
you put "integration bounds" in a place where they had no business to be
in the first place, but you should understand why these two expressions
are so fundamentally different.