This is not a solution, as I haven't found a closed form expression (and I doubt meanwhile that it exists) but a collection of illustrative remarks that might be useful.
Notice that I have reinserted and simplified the derivation of the Fourier form of the double sum in 6).
1) While the sum
$$f=\sum _{r=-\infty }^{\infty } \sum _{s=-\infty }^{\infty } \frac{1}{\left(k^2 \tau ^2+(2 \pi r+x)^2+(2 \pi s+y)^2\right)^{3/2}}$$
is returned unevaluated by Mathematica the corresponding integral has a very simple closed form solution (independent of $x$ and $y$)
$$fi=\int _{-\infty }^{\infty }\int _{-\infty }^{\infty }\frac{1}{\left(k^2 \tau ^2+(2 \pi r+x)^2+(2 \pi s+y)^2\right)^{3/2}}dsdr = \frac{1}{2 \pi \sqrt{k^2 \tau ^2}}$$
This is of course a purely technical remark as the integral lacks the essential dependence on $x$ and $y$.
2) Numerical investigation shows that but a few summand are sufficient to obtain a reasonable approximation to the complete sum.
3) Plots of the double sum
3a) 3D-plot for two values of $z = k \tau$
$z = 1$

$z = \pi /2$ (this is the value to be assigned to z acording to the OP)

We see the expected regular spike structure. Where the spikes become steeper with smaller $z$ (notice that the vertical scale is the same in the two pictures).
3b) Cross sections $y = 0$ for different values of z

3c) Maximum value of $f$ as a function of $z$

Notice that $f \simeq 1/z^3$ for small $z$. Which can also be derived directly form the double sum as is shown in section 5).
3d) Minimum value of $f$ as a function of $z$

4) Physical interpretation of the double sum.
Consider an infinite array of unit masses placed in the x-y-plane at the points $(x,y) = 2 \pi (r,s)$.
The double sum $f$ multiplied by $z$ is then equal to the vertical component of the gravitational force on a unit mass at the point $(x,y,z)$.
It is clear from this analogue model that the force is strong for small $z$ and decreases for increasing $z$.
5) Asymptotic behaviour
5a) For small $z$ we have $z \simeq 1/z^3$.
Indeed, for small $z$ we can write
$$f(0,0,z\to 0)\simeq \frac{4}{(2 \pi )^{3/2}}\sum _{r=1}^{\infty } \sum _{s=1}^{\infty } \frac{1}{\left(r^2+s^2\right)^{3/2}}+\frac{1}{z^3}$$
The double sum is a finite constant as can be shown thus
$$fr=\sum _{r=1}^{\infty } \sum _{s=1}^{\infty } \frac{1}{\left(r^2+s^2\right)^{3/2}}<\int _1^{\infty }\int _1^{\infty }\frac{1}{\left(r^2+s^2\right)^{3/2}}dsdr=2-\sqrt{2}\simeq 0.585786\text{...}$$
This proves the statement.
5b) For $z\to\infty$ we find $f\simeq \frac{1}{2 \pi z}$.
Indeed, in this case the double sum can be approximated by the double integral as calculated in section 1).
5c) Both limits are easily understood from the physical analogy:
For small $z$ and $(x,y) = (0,0)$ we are approaching a single mass at the origin. The force we have calculated is equal to the $z \frac{1}{z^3} = \frac{1}{z^2}$, in agreement with Newton's law of gravity.
For large $z$, on the other hand, the grid structure is "invisible" to the point mass, and the force becomes equal to the force of an infinite massive plate, and this is constant. Indeed we have found $f \simeq 1/z$, times $z$ this is constant.
6) Fourier form of the double sum
The double sum $f$, renamed $fc$ here, can also be written as a double Fourier series.
$$fc(x,y,z)=\frac{1}{2 \pi z}\sum _{n=-\infty }^{\infty } \sum _{m=-\infty }^{\infty } e^{-z \sqrt{m^2+n^2}} \cos (m y) \cos (n x)$$
The derivation starts from the expression obtained in the solution of Pierpaolo Vivo
$$fe(x,y,z)=\int_0^{\infty } \frac{e^{-t z^2} \vartheta _3\left(\frac{x}{2},e^{-\frac{1}{4\; t}}\right) \vartheta _3\left(\frac{y}{2},e^{-\frac{1}{4\; t}}\right)}{2 \pi ^{3/2} \sqrt{t}} \, dt$$
Subsituting the expression for the Jacobi theta function (see the real part of formula (4) in http://mathworld.wolfram.com/JacobiThetaFunctions.html)
$$\vartheta _3\left(\frac{u}{2},q\right)=\sum _{n=-\infty }^{\infty } q^{n^2} \cos (n u)$$
and doing the $t$-integral gives
$$\cos (m y) \cos (n x) \int_0^{\infty } \frac{\exp \left(-\frac{m^2+n^2}{4 t}-t z^2\right)}{\left(2 \pi ^{3/2}\right) \sqrt{t}} \, dt=\frac{e^{-z \sqrt{m^2+n^2}} \cos (m y) \cos (n x)}{2 \pi z}$$
The double sum of which is $fc$. Done.
Remark: it is interesting, that replacing the double sum by a double integral gives (hint: transform to polar coordinates)
$$\frac{1}{2 \pi z}\int _{-\infty }^{\infty }\int _{-\infty }^{\infty }e^{-z \sqrt{m^2+n^2}} \cos (m y) \cos (n x)dmdn=\frac{1}{\left(x^2+y^2+z^2\right)^{3/2}}$$
This expression is less trivial than the one in 1) but the double periodic structure is washed out as well.
7) Approximations
We can approximate the function by taking only a finite number $n$ of terms, defined here as letting the summation indices run from $-n$ to $n$.
It turns out that for $z\gtrsim 1$ the Fourier double sum $fc$ requires less terms than the plain sum $f$, while for $z\lesssim 1$ the situation is reversed.
The following graphs show the typical behaviour of the maximum and minimum values as a function of the number of terms.
The case $z = \pi /2$, this is the values of the OP


The case $z = 1/2$


We conclude that if $z$ takes on the value $\pi /2$ of the OP, then the Fourier double sum truncated at index $n = 4$ gives a satisfactory approximation to $f$. Hence we can state (somewhat boldly) that this is the requested closed form expression.