Let $W_1$ denote the first white ball, $W_2$ the second. We remark that there are $11$ balls aside from those two, thus the probability of choosing a neutral ball is $\frac {11}{13}$. We will let $X$ denote a generic "neutral" choice.
$P(0,0)$: We need each choice to be neutral so $$P(0,0)=\left( \frac {11}{13}\right)^3=\frac {1331}{2197}$$
$P(1,0)$: here we have to distinguish a couple of cases.
Case I: you choose $W_1$ exactly once. Then there are $3$ places to locate the special ball, so $\frac {3\times 11^2}{13^3}$.
Case II: you choose $W_1$ exactly twice. Then there are $3$ places to locate the neutral ball so $\frac {3\times 11}{13^3}$.
Case III: You choose $W_1$ three times. $\frac 1{13^3}$
Thus $$P(1,0)=\frac {3\times 11^2+3\times 11+1}{13^3}=\frac {397}{2197}$$
$P(0,1)=P(1,0)$ by symmetry.
$P(1,1)$: you have to distinguish two cases.
Case I: the third ball is neutral. Then there are $3$ ways to place $W_1$ and then $2$ ways to place $W_2$ and then $11$ choices for $X$ so $\frac {6\times 11}{13^3}$
Case II: The third ball is one of $W_1,W_2$. Then there are $6$ cases (two choices for the duplicate and three ways to place the odd man out). Thus $\frac 6{13^3}$.
Thus $$P(1,1)=\frac {6\times 11+6}{13^3}=\frac {72}{2197}$$
Consistency check: these should add to $1$. Indeed $$1331+397+397+72=2197$$