Perhaps it is best to start with a slightly simpler problem.
We have an urn containing 5 balls: 3 red and 2 green. We will withdraw
two balls at random without replacement. (a) We want the distribution
of the random variable $X$ that counts the number of red balls drawn.
(b) Also, we want to know the probability that the two balls drawn are
of the same color.
Unordered Outcomes. Notice that neither (a) nor (b) mentions the order in which the two
balls are drawn. For (a), we have
$$P(X = i) = \frac{{3 \choose i}{2 \choose 2-i}}{{5 \choose 2}},$$
for $i = 0,1,2.$ The counts in denominator and numerator are both
of unordered outcomes. You may recognize this as a hypergeometric
distribution. We can get the table for the PDF of $X$ by simple arithmetic
to deal with the factorials involved or by using R statistical software:
i = 0:2; pdf = dhyper(i, 3, 2, 2)
cbind(i, pdf) # 'cbind' binds together column vectors
## i pdf
## 0 0.1
## 1 0.6
## 2 0.3
We can answer (b) as $P(\text{Same Color}) = P(X = 0) + P(X = 2) = 0.4.$
One possible sample space has unordered oucomes $\{GG, RG, RR\},$ with
unequal probabilities, each corresponding to one of the three possible
values of $X.$
Another possible sample space starts by naming the
five balls as r1, r2, r3, g1, g2 and then lists unordered outcomes,
each of which shows two balls. Because 'real' order makes no difference,
I choose a convenient order of for each of the ${5 \choose 2} = 10$ equally likely outcomes (for example, r1r2, not r2r1).
r1r2 r1r3 r1g1 r1g2
r2r3 r2g1 r2g2
r3g1 r3g2
g1g2
Ordered Outcomes. If I am going to ask questions for which order
makes a difference, then I need to deal with order throughout. For example,
what is the probability that a red ball is chosen on the second draw?
One approach is to use conditional probability:
$P(R_1 \cap R_2) = P(R_1)P(R_2 | R_1) = \frac{3}{5}\cdot\frac{2}{4} = 0.3$
$P(G_1 \cap R_2) = P(G_1)P(R_2 | G_1) = \frac{2}{5}\cdot\frac{3}{4} = 0.3$
$P(R_2) = P(R_1 \cap R_2) + P(G_1 \cap R_2) = 0.6.$
Also, by symmetry, we should have $P(R_2) = P(R_1) = 3/5 = 0.6.$
You may want to write out the sample space of 20 equally likely ordered outcomes,
which has the ten listed above, plus another ten with the order reversed.
(Now, for example, both r1r2 and r2r1 need to be listed.)
Questions in which order is not important can be answered using ordered
outcomes, but not the reverse. For example, we could find
$$P(\text{Same Color}) = P(R_1 \cap R_2) + P(G_1 \cap G_2) = 0.3 + 0.1 = 0.4.$$
The most important lesson here is to decide at the start whether you
are going to use ordered or unordered outcomes, and then stay with that
decision throughout the computation.