The actual size of $R$ and $R'$ doesn't matter, as long as they are the same size and echelon row-reduced. We then have
$$
R=\begin{bmatrix}I & B\\ 0&0\end{bmatrix},\ \ \ R'=\begin{bmatrix}I & C\\ 0&0\end{bmatrix}
$$
for appropriate matrices $B$ and $C$. The assertion $Rx=0$ if and only if $R'x=0$ then says
\begin{align}
x_1+Bx_2=0& \iff \begin{bmatrix}I & B\\ 0&0\end{bmatrix}\begin{bmatrix}x_1\\ x_2\end{bmatrix}=\begin{bmatrix}0\\0\end{bmatrix}
\iff Rx=0 \\ \ \\
&\iff R'x=0
\iff \begin{bmatrix}I & C\\ 0&0\end{bmatrix}\begin{bmatrix}x_1\\ x_2\end{bmatrix}=\begin{bmatrix}0\\0\end{bmatrix}\\ \ \\
&\iff x_1+Cx_2=0.
\end{align}
So, if we fix $x_2$ and put $x_1=-Bx_2$, we get $x_1+Bx_2=0$, and so $x_1+Cx_2=0$. That is,
$$
Bx_2=-x_1=Cx_2.
$$
As we can do this for all $x_2$, it follows that $B=C$. Thus $R=R'$.