The converse is true. The equation $|z-a|+|z+a|=2|b|$ is the equation of an ellipse with foci at $\pm a$. The major axis will be on the line through the foci. The major radius will be $|b|$. The maximum modulus obtained by $z$ will be $|b|$ and it will occur when $z=\pm a|b|/|a|$.
In more detail: the equation describes the locus of points $z$ in the complex plane such that the distances from $z$ to the two points $a, -a$ add up to a constant, $2|b|$. This is one definition of an ellipse, with foci $a, -a$. As you proved, if $|b|<|a|$ there can't be any points like this, but if $|b|\geq |a|$ there definitely can. Imagine a string of length $2|b|$, with its endpoints at $a,-a$. Pull the string off to the side till it's tight, and you have found a point $z$ satisfying the given equation.
If $|b|=|a|$ exactly, the string is already tight and the locus of points is exactly the segment from $-a$ to $a$.
If $|b|>|a|$, then you get a true ellipse. Since it is centered at the origin (because $-a,a$ are symmetric with respect to the origin), the maximum modulus of a point on the ellipse occurs at the vertices. The vertices occur on the line through $-a,a$, thus they are real multiples of $a$. Also, being on the line with $a,-a$, their distance from the origin is their average distance from $-a,a$, which is always $2|b|/2=|b|$, since the sum of the distances must be $2|b|$. Thus the vertices are at distance $|b|$ from the origin, on the line through $-a,a$. Thus, normalize $\pm a$ in length: $\pm a/|a|$; then multiply by $|b|$: $z=\pm |b| \cdot a/|a|$ are the vertices.