If no one comes, then there is no speaker. The chance that at least one person comes is $1-2^{-N}$. The chance that each person is the first speaker is the same for each of the $N$, so the chance that each will speak first is $(1-2^{-N})/N$.
This type of analysis is also useful if you are analyzing your expected share of a lottery in which the prize is split among the winning tickets. You could try to evaluate a complicated sum, but instead compute the probability that at least one person wins, and then your expected share is the same as anyone else's. This gives a way to evaluate that complicated sum, which then lets you evaluate other cases which do not have the same symmetry, such as if you buy several lottery tickets and ensure that your tickets have different numbers, while everyone else buys one random ticket.
The analogue might be to ask how often person $1$ is the speaker if person $1$ is guaranteed to show up, while everyone else shows up independently with probability $1/2$. Although there is no longer complete symmetry, the probability must be twice the probability if person $1$ were to show up with probability $1/2$. Since that is $(1-2^{-N})/N$, the conditional probability that person $1$ speaks conditioned on showing up is $(1-2^{-N})\cdot 2/N$.